Deborrah Cooper (aka Ms HeartBeat)

is creating dating and relationship based videos, podcasts, webinars & books

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I call this my soul work - something I've been put on earth to accomplish for the good of mankind. In this case I've spent almost three decades educating women and girls on matters of the heart. I've covered and continue to cover tough subjects such as abusive relationships, vetting and proper mate selection, social issues which impact females, self-esteem, codependency, identifying toxic relationships, and other relationship dynamics which cause angst and confusion.

Over the past 27 years, I've helped tens of thousands of women, girls, and even young men better understand themselves and why they make the choices they do which ultimately harm them. I'd love to continue this work, talking to people honestly, bluntly and addressing issues which few advice columnists will touch.

After eight years creating podcasts on BlogTalkRadio and posting hundreds of columns and articles on my blog SurvivingDating.Com, I've decided to move on and focus my energies on video and webinar production. Your support in this endeavor is invaluable, as I would love to increase the quality of the productions with proper video recording, lighting, set design, sound and editing equipment. No donation is too small, and all are greatly appreciated.
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When I get to $500 per month, I'll he able to hire assistance to help produce more and higher quality videos for your enjoyment
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