James Nelmondo

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A (much appreciated) way to support me if you don't need my one on one counseling.

Perfect to help me run the website and tell me I'm fighting the good fight.

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Supporting this tier comes with the optional and additional benefit of being able to get relationship feedback directly from me, anytime you choose. 

Supporters skip email and website  queues and get my immediate attention. Tell me your story and get your feedback, it's that simple. 

A full MONTH of support for the price of an admittedly expensive Espresso, and longer if you need it / or just want to support me.  




Well hello there.

I'm James Nelmondo, the sole author behind the Unknown's Breakup, a personal project that started from the ashes of my own miserable breakup.

The website was, and is, a way for me to navigate my relationship quirks and an attempt to make my introspection "tangible". A funeral for my feelings if you will. 

The problem with managing the website is that I am adamant about not using the platform to "monetize" my advice in a way that would corrupt it. And let's be honest here, the truth doesn't sell as a well as false hope does. 

This is only a problem because as the website grows, so do the costs. And the lack of advertising means I am paying everything out of pocket. And that cost is rising...

Patreon may prove a way for those who wish to voluntarily support me to do so. And it goes without saying that any help would be incredibly appreciated!

For more information about who I am and what I do please feel free to visit the Unknown's relationship advice
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