Wendy Newman

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UPDATE: In addition to the monthly inner circle call, I'm offering a weekly coffee date on zoom each Wednesday at 10 a.m. PT. starting April 8th and will run until the Covid-19 shelter-in-place crisis is behind us.

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Inner Circle calls are Wednesdays 5:00 p.m. PT. Check the notices for your next monthly call.

I've created a space for my women friends and women fans who want to hang out, ask questions and get behind-the-scenes details.

It's also a place to get support in having a ridiculously happy life (whatever that looks like for you).

When answering questions or working with a topic, I'll be frank and sometimes the content will be R-rated.

These calls are *30-60 minutes and if you join live, you'll see video. If you want to listen later, it's audio-only.

*Length of each call depends on the number of questions that are asked. Calls usually run the full hour.
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1) Into the "Inner Circle" or "Open Relationship Forum".
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3) One personalized video answer just for you each month.


Hey, I'm Wendy Newman. Author, writer, and advice pusher.

I'm on a mission to empower women to be free, powerful, fearless, and wildly and unapologetically themselves.

I dispense practical council on our love lives, whip up articles that explore the challenges of everyday life and the workability of unconventional relationships, and occasionally I rant about things like cultural sex-negativity, why online dating’s seriously misunderstood, and more. I'm endlessly moved to write and express ideas that make people question the status quo.

I've helped over 70,000 people (mostly women) understand the opposite sex, find love, have better sex, love their body as it is, and create relationships that make them ridiculously happy. (I kinda love that about me.)

My book, 121 First Dates: How to Succeed at Online Dating, Fall in Love, and Live Happily Ever After (Really!), is part juicy tell-all, part anti-rules dating guide. It’s been optioned for a major TV series (think HBO; I am!) and is getting love from the Wall Street Journal, Access Hollywood, and a gazillion more media outlets. I've pretty much been written up in every important news outlet sans the New York Times and The New Yorker. Hey, I'm working on it.


1) I'm working on the book proposal for my next book entitled You, Me & Them: Wild Tales and Wise Musings for Relationship Rebels, Heretics and Non-Conformists

2) I'm polishing a screenplay (pilot) for television. It's an hour-long dramady about three women navigating changing relationship models and midlife in San Francisco.

3) And finally, I'm writing a second screenplay (pilot) for television. Also an hour-long dramady, this time about three East Indian women finding their power, sense of home and their own version of "happy ever after" in San Francisco.
Yep, that's right! I'm a woman, larger than a size four, well over 40, with no formal education in the entertainment business — and I'm busing in! I've written two compelling scripts and the stars are aligning, so I'll have binge-worthy shows for you soon.

But I can't do it alone. I'm asking for your help, and I know the return on your investment will not disappoint.

Come join me on this epic adventure!

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